Boudoir stories, photos, inspiration & advice.
Zia’s photoshoot helped her feel powerful and confident
Trauma had really affected Zia’s self-confidence and mental health over the years, and her physical disability had only added to that internal fight. Yet, despite her anxiety, she found the courage to face her fears and absolutely rocked her photoshoot! Now her boudoir photos have become a beautiful tool for her recovery and a reminder of gorgeous, strong woman she is.
Re-discovering your identity and confidence after a break-up or divorce.
So many women struggle with their self-confidence and body image following the breakdown of a relationship. The emotional impact of feeling rejection, failure and loss can seriously undermine your self-esteem, whilst such a huge change in your life often leads to an identity crisis. Who are you now?
Sam celebrated her love of cosplay and got to see herself as others do.
Sam’s body confidence had plummeted, so when she heard how much her work bestie’s photoshoot had affected how she saw herself, she decided to follow in her footsteps. She never thought she would be able to do a shoot like this, yet it was actually the most fun she’d had in ages! Her passion for cosplay inspired an amazing green lingerie look with Loki accessories, and her New Rock boots worked perfectly with her harness and celebrated her personal style.
Hope proved you can rock a boudoir photoshoot - no matter how nervous you are.
Hope had little body confidence and really struggled with her anxiety before her photoshoot. She was so scared when she arrived at the studio, but actually enjoyed the experienced and was overwhelmed by how much she loved her photos! I hope this is the beginning of a new relationship with her body and herself.
Victoria learned to love and accept her body with and without her prosthetic leg
Victoria had always struggled with her body confidence, but it hit an all time low following the amputation of her leg. Her boudoir photoshoot was all about learning to love accept herself as she is today, capturing gorgeous photos both with and without her prosthetic leg. After an amazing and emotional day at the studio, she left with a newfound confidence and amazing photos as a constant reminder of the strong, beautiful woman she is.
Nicola is on a journey to rediscover her identity
Nicola was raised thinking that loving herself was arrogant and spent years in a traumatic relationship because she had no idea how to prioritise herself. Becoming a mum changed her whole identity and there was nothing left for her. Following her recent Autistic/ADHD diagnoses, she’s finally on a journey to discover her identity and we are so delighted her boudoir photoshoot could be a part of that.
What is your identity? - and can you change it?
For some people their identity is clear and defined, something they’ve accepted as fact, but what if I told you that didn’t have to be the case? I believe our identity is something that is, to a large degree, flexible and something we can choose.
Katie learnt that how you see yourself isn’t how others see you
Katie’s self confidence and body image had been up and down, she was struggling to love herself when she found the courage to book her photoshoot. Despite her nerves and worries about being judged, she really went for it and discovered a new side of herself! Now her favourite photos are on her bedroom wall as a constant reminder of the beautiful and courageous woman she really is.
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This summer, we want to spread the message of self love across our social media and beyond by sharing these stories to inspire women of all ages, shapes and sizes - and help us all realise that we are not alone.
How to love yourself, even if you don’t always like yourself.
When I was young and I did something wrong or angered my Mum she would sometimes say something along the lines of “I will always love you… but i don’t like you very much right now!”. Now I’ve begun to apply that same principle to how I see myself - and I hope you can too.
Zoe re-discovered her identity at 50 as a curvy, sexy, confident woman
As a busy mum, wife and business-owner - Zoe had lost sight of her own identity. Her lovely husband gave her the push she needed to face her fears and insecurities when he treated her to a Boudoir Photoshoot to celebrate her 50th Birthday. The experience empowered her re-emerge as the sexy, curvy, confident woman she always was inside.
Emma’s photoshoot gave her a new perspective on her body
Emma always struggled with her weight due to her hormones and hated the way she looked, focusing on “wobbly bits and scars”, but her photoshoot completely changed her perspective! She’s finally begun to love herself and her body - almost as much as her husband always has.
What is Confidence? Why Does Boudoir Help?
Confidence is such a big topic and something that we regularly talk about at the studio, our social media posts, on this blog and in our videos too. It’s a huge part of what we do at Foxlow Photography - helping our clients to discover or build their confidence is what drives us every single day.
Katie stopped comparing herself to others when she discovered her confidence
Katie’s confidence had been knocked by her fluctuating weight and she found herself always comparing herself to other people. Her photoshoot finally allowed her to see herself differently - she discovered that she doesn’t need to change anything to love herself and be confident.
Taboo FAQs: Ten things you’re too embarrassed to ask your boudoir photographer.
Most of our clients have never done a boudoir photoshoot before, everyone is nervous, and many women say they’re too scared to ask things. Remember, you’re not alone! I’m here to help you every step of the way, there’s no such thing as a silly question, and there’s no need to be embarrassed. Whatever you’re thinking has probably been asked before, and even if not - I’m open minded and not easily shocked.
Fran rediscovered the confidence that trauma had stolen from her
Fran’s self confidence had been destroyed by sexual assault and weight gain. We’re so proud she found the courage to book a boudoir experience despite all her anxiety and insecurities! The studio was filled with laughter during her shoot and happy tears when she saw her photos the following day. Now Fran can finally accept her body and love herself, and her beautiful photos remind her of that.
Verity discovered her inner strength and confidence
Verity had always struggled with her body image and shied away from the spotlight. Her boudoir photoshoot was a way for her to get out of her comfort zone and embrace her sexuality, and despite her nerves and fears - she did just that! She described her photos as show the very best version of herself and is deservedly proud of her photos. She finally has confidence in herself and her beauty that can boost every aspect of her personal and professional life.
At last, Carrie can see herself as others do
Carrie’s confidence had grown following her weight loss, but she couldn't shake insecurities and doubts about her appearance. She was so worried that she would look ‘hideous’ in her photos, but was amazed to see this beautiful woman staring back at her. Now she can finally see herself as others do.
Julie had the time of her life in a boudoir photoshoot
Julie may be confident in her day-to-day life, but a boudoir photoshoot was totally out of her comfort zone. It’s amazing how quickly she started enjoying herself and feeling like a star in the studio! Now she has her photos displayed proudly to forever remind her of that feeling.
Lucy rediscovered her inner confidence at last
After a lifetime of struggling to accept herself and years in an emotionally abusive marriage, Lucy’s body image and self esteem had reached an all time low in 2020. Yet there was hope. Her new partner helped in her new mission to rediscover herself and finally her boudoir experience with us allowed her to see herself differently and celebrate how far she’s come. Now we can all finally say “She’s back. The old Lucy is back!”.